Sex Life by Design - Jaiya #131

My friend — and one of our most popular podcast guests — Jaiya is back on ReWild Yourself Podcast for a conversation on seduction, desire and turning on your primal sexual pilot light. If you tuned into our last show, you’ll remember Jaiya breaking down the five Erotic Blueprint types (and if you haven’t heard this one, check it out here). In this episode, Jaiya shares how you can use her Erotic Blueprint framework to fine tune how you seduce your partner and yourself!

Jaiya divulges some intimate stories on how she worked through her personal traumas and how she maintains vulnerability in work and sex. We also get into some strategies for how to keep things spicy in a long-term partnership, and even discuss navigating non-monogamy with your committed partner.

Jaiya shows how designing your sex life with intention can ignite your inner passion and ripple outwards into all other areas of your life!

Episode Breakdown:

  • Introduction:
    • Daniel shares on being prepared to survive in our ecosystem
    • A call for podcast guest suggestions
  • Defining seduction
  • Seduction & the Erotic Blueprints
  • Finding the trends in Erotic Blueprint types
  • Healing trauma
  • The Kinky Blueprint
  • Being vulnerable in work and sex
  • How Jaiya and her partner keep things hot in their relationship
  • How to seduce yourself
  • Navigating non-monogamy in a committed relationship
  • Jaiya’s Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough course

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Meet Jaiya

Jaiya is an internationally recognized, award-winning sexologist, author of Red Hot Touch, and the founder of New World Sex Education; a company dedicated to using “real” sex education to help men and women get the sex lives they desire. Jaiya’s mission is to help others unleash erotic ecstasy and to shift the cultural view of sexuality from being something that is bad, wrong or shameful to something seen as healthy, and worth cultivating and celebrating.

You may have seen Jaiya on Ricki Lake, The Doctors, Good Morning America, Nightline, The Anderson Show, The Tyra Banks Show, TLC, CNN or Playboy TV. She’s even shared the stage with self-help guru Tony Robbins. Jaiya is a unique mix of Dr. Ruth, Lady Gaga and a Yogi; through her dynamic teachings she’s helping women and men reach their full erotic potential.